There is a myriad of things which might make you feel like a twin flame journey is failing. Not feeling the desire to communicate or meet is a common one but it can mean a lot of different things.
There is some discussion over whether it’s technically possible for a real twin flame journey to fail. Sure, there can be setbacks but some believe if it isn’t working out then the person is likely a false twin flame. Or perhaps it’s just a break you’re taking to prepare yourself for the next stage. Remember, the journey can be emotionally exhausting.
Nobody can tell you what it really means when something goes wrong in your journey. There are signs you can look for but at the end of the day, it’s going to have to be you figuring it out.
You are never going to get a straight cut and dried x amount of failures or success stories because it depends what you deem a success or failure?
Think of the Wright Brothers- they flew the first time for 12 seconds that was a success in their eyes.. whereas others would have thought it was a failure…
Do you understand what I’m saying ?
Just because someone isn’t in union yet doesn’t mean they’ve failed what if after x amount of months or years even they were in contact again.. that would be a success right?
This was a great answer from this question on Quora.
Remember the Separation Stage
While not technically a required stage the separation is a common part of a twin flame journey. Feeling apart doesn’t instantly mean the journey has failed or they were a false flame. It could just be part of reaching the union stage.
What if Twin Flame Separation is nothing but a preparation for Twin Flame Union?
Because you are not getting the confirmation from your twin in the physical reality that they are still in this together with you, it’s easy to feel that the connection is lost. Because their 3D behavior is bringing up all your unhealed shit, it’s easy to think they don’t love you anymore like they once did. But the truth is that Twin Flame Separation is the ultimate illusion.
It’s designed in this way because if you knew union was a sure thing, you would sit back and not do the work. But what if while you are experiencing the illusion of separation and everything it triggers inside of you, secretly you and your divine counterpart are being prepared for Twin Flame Union? What if it is all designed this way, to bring up the gunk and sludge from the deepest layers of your psyche and that this was the only way you would be able to go this deep, by fully believing the illusion?
It’s always darkest just before the dawn… What if Twin Flame Separation is nothing but the darkness before the dawn of Twin Flame Union?
This advice from this article.