Considering we run the biggest site on twin flames it’s hardly surprising how many stories and questions we get sent in about false twin flames.
The whole twin flame journey can be tough enough before we start having to worry it’s a false twin flame on top of everything else. So this is the ultimate guide on what it means, what you can do about it and how it’s actually a good thing.
What is a False Twin Flame?
The false twin flames, also referred to as the counterfeit twin flame, is a preparatory catalyst soulmate who appears in the life of a twin flame soul being just prior to connection with the true twin flame. This catalyst soulmate is extremely important to the soul evolution of said twin, although twins are already quite evolved and ascended, if not already ascended masters. While the twin is already extremely evolved and ascended, they mistake this counterfeit twin flame for the true twin. This is unavoidable and always happens, but is a necessary aspect of the journey.
This catalyst soulmate is just one of many catalyst soul mates that the twin soul will encounter, but is one of the most important and powerful due to that evolution it delivers. While twins are evolved already, there are sometimes aspects of healing they require from incidents which transpired during this lifetime. This is the particular catalyst who can get the job done, so to speak, so to pave the smooth path for the true twin flame.
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The incarnations of twins are interesting. Twins were one in the same person during the 1st incarnation, either a male or a female. In incarnation number 2, the twins soul has still not yet been divided so they incarnate as a male or female whatever the opposite was in the 1st incarnation in order to experience being both a male and a female energy, still one person. It is during this, the 3rd and final incarnation that the soul is split into two parts: one male and one female energy incarnate in the two separate human bodies. It is during this 3rd and final incarnation that the soul must complete the purpose behind why twin flames exist in the first place: the divine mission. In preparation for the mission as well as for the twin flame reunion of soul energy, certain events must take place. This catalyst, the false aka the counterfeit twin flame is just one.
Unfortunately, many twins become too engrossed in the devilish addictive attachments and drawing nature of these types of catalyst soulmate connections, even when deep within they know with whom and with what they are dealing. Because these connections mimic true twin flames in just about every sense of the word, it can become quite confusing.
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False Twin Flame Signs
Unsurprisingly in the twin flame journey, there isn’t a top 10 list you’re guaranteed to see. By now you’ve probably seen a lot of this is – here’s the general idea of what to look out for because you might see some of them.
Well, that trend is continuing here – but let’s take a look at how you can spot the signs of a false twin flame.
- In some ways, your real twin flame and false twin flame will be quite a lot alike.
- When you’re dealing with karma the past is bound to be involved. A common sign of a false twin is issues of the past arising when you thought they were buried.
- A false twin will teach you how to help yourself. A true twin will teach you how to help others. An important distinction here.
- Do you know the term ‘fairweather friends’? It applies to false twins as well. A false flame is likely to start to leave when challenges arise. A real twin flame bound is only going to get stronger.
- A real twin flame will make you feel at ease and relaxed from the start. A false flame is more likely to cause you to feel anxious. The same goes for doubt and uncertainty.
Your true twin flame will cause you to grow in healthy ways while your false twin flame will destroy you and cause you to self-destruct.
I know I said a false twin flame is a good thing in some ways (and that’s true) but that’s not to say it’s all fun and games.
I find that this concept gets misused at times to tolerate mistreatment, sometimes even abuse, or to dismiss outright incompatibility. Indeed, many toxic predators exploit the “twin flame” idea to meet their own needs and guilt their victims into staying in the relationship.
While a true twin flame will feel like a safe haven, somewhere you can go for emotional shelter, your false twin flame will feel like an (albeit alluring) danger zone. With the latter, you’re perpetually walking on eggshells, biting your nails in anxiety, while with the former, you’re thrust into constructive self-examination and mutual growth.
While it’s common for a journey with a twin flame to be somewhat tumultuous in that egos are being purged and traumas are surfacing to be healed, a true twin flame will never purposely set out to hurt you. A false twin flame, on the other hand, may deliberately create chaos in your life by gaslighting you, stonewalling you, provoking you and taunting you. They won’t have much empathy for your needs and they will subject you to unnecessary and excessive trauma.
A true twin flame will cherish you even if they challenge you. You will feel comforted in the presence of a true twin flame, as if your soul has finally reached home after a long and arduous journey.
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False Twin Flame Synchronicities
One of the main signs of a real twin flame connection is the synchronicities you see together. We’ll not get into that again here but it’s important to keep an eye out for similar ones with a false flame. You’ll also notice some very specific ones you’re far less likely to get with your real twin.
- You’re likely to feel stuck in a rut with your spiritual growth.
- Your intuition might be telling you something is off and this usually results in feeling awkward and uncomfortable in conversation sometimes.
- If you try and take charge you might find yourself manipulated or threatened. This can be hard to spot from the inside however and is tricky to notice unless it’s within someone elses relationship.
- You’ll never really feel stable in a false flame relationship.