There are plenty of occasions which makes it tough and confusing when you find your twin flame. Marriage is certainly one of them.
There’s no set answer for what happens in this situation because it’ll always vary between twins and situations but let’s start by looking at someone who had a similar issue.
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The woman I consider my twin is married. My feelings for her are overwhelming. I left a job and my home state to “run” from her. She is married with two kids. My life before her was comfortable. When she entered my life everything got complicated. I don’t know if she was the main amplifier for the complications or if they would’ve existed without her. Either way, I ran. Now, I live in a new city and new state. Off topic, if you want to pay more money to be miserable move to Columbia, MO. This place is a shithole.
I miss her. Everyday. I do love her completely and undonditionally. My ego is still in control, due to my ego, I do wish to never see her again. A part of me want to never hear from her again. The egoless part wants to stay in contact. The rational part of me that doesn’t care about ego has already accepted that I am done with her. She is in the past. She will remain there. Put on the back burners until a few years from now the mind can forget her. Unfortunately, the heart retains people infinitely. Especially ones that I love so deeply and uniquely.
A constant battle between mind/rationale and heart. My mind will always veto the heart. So, because she is married she is on the delete status. I left her. It has been months and I’m still waiting for heart to follow suit. For some reason heart trumps mind still for me. Frustrating as it is and painful as it is my mind will wait until my heart is ready to let go fully. Hopefully, that day comes soon because missing her hurts.
This anecdote is an answer on this Quora question.
The Married Twin Flame & Divorce Aligning with the Truth Within
As humanity evolves and ascends into a higher vibration, relationships are changing too. The expansion of consciousness brings with it a broader understanding of the different ways we relate to and connect with each other. As we move into the 4th and 5th dimensions, the old paradigm relationships of the 3D consciousness are crumbling, causing many to question the many inherited symbolic systems which govern our lives today.
One of the systems in need of being redefined during this time of rapid spiritual evolution is the old stereotypical concept of marriage. Marriage today has become a contract, an institution of society, and the couple a property of that society. Not so long ago, people still married for the sole purpose of ensuring their physical survival or to obtain an heir, and although people still marry for external reasons (money, family, social status etc.), many now enter into marriage in order to pursue emotional fulfillment and spiritual growth. But if marriage is the ideal platform for this then why are so many marriages failing? The thing about spiritual growth is, it can make us incompatible with someone we used to be in harmony with. Since spiritual growth is accelerating and humanity awakening, more and more people are working through their karmic lessons and “outgrowing” their marriages faster than ever before. As such, marriage as it exists today here on Earth is not meant to last forever but only until the full potential for growth has been reached which often isn’t “until death do us part”.
Underlying the disintegration of marriage is the spiritual amnesia we all suffer from to varying degrees. Humanity has forgotten it’s true nature and with it, the true meaning of marriage. Marriage as God intended is a sacred union of two souls, created for each other, with each other. Unfortunately very few marriages today are founded upon the resonance of souls let alone two people sharing the same soul. This is where we as Twin flames step in. We are the way showers, here to bring a new template onto this Planet; one where true love is that of the soul and where our love for our partner mirrors our relationship with our Self and God to the most intimate degree, allowing for endless spiritual and emotional growth and discovery. This is not the template of a relationship but of a union which awakens the divine sparkle within us and draws our divine counterpart to us, reminding us of the eternal life which awaits us once our shared mission here on Earth is complete.