There is a myriad of things that might make you feel like a twin flame journey is failing. Not feeling the desire to communicate or meet is a common one but it can mean a lot of different things.
There is some discussion over whether it’s technically possible for a real twin flame journey to fail. Sure, there can be setbacks but some believe if it isn’t working out then the person is likely a false twin flame. Or perhaps it’s just a break you’re taking to prepare yourself for the next stage. Remember, the journey can be emotionally, spiritually and (sometimes) physically exhausting.
It can be hard to pinpoint exactly what it means for your journey when something goes wrong because no two twin flame journeys are going to be exactly alike. This is one of the reasons twin flame readings have to be specific to you but there are some signs you can look out for.
You are never going to get a straight cut and dried x amount of failures or success stories because it depends on what you deem a success or failure?
Think of the Wright Brothers- they flew the first time for 12 seconds that was a success in their eyes.. whereas others would have thought it was a failure…
We recently did a post about a twin flame not talking to you and a reader sent us an email that they were going through a horrible part of their journey. They thought they had failed and was about to move halfway across the world to try and get a clean break. Within 24 hours of sending that email, the twin flame runner had done a complete 180 and they reached that reunion phase.
Do you understand what I’m trying to say?
Just because you haven’t reached that reunion phase yet doesn’t mean that it’s a failed twin flame journey. The truth is twin flames can’t actually fail it just means you haven’t reached that stage yet.
This said it doesn’t mean you can just sit back and wait for the universe to sort things out for you. There’s still work to be done. Just because a twin flame union can’t fail in the long run that doesn’t mean it’s going to happen in this lifetime. We should all be actively working to further our spiritual path and overcoming what keeps you in separation.
So How Do You Avoid Failure?
Our job now is going to be to make sure you’re in a real twin flame journey (so you’re not wasting time and going through unnecessary pain) and help you to understand the journey as much as possible. The twin flame separation phase is absolutely the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through and I’ve no doubt you’re currently feeling the same way.
The key is understanding. The more you understand about your journey the more control you’re going to have over it. This is why we offer twin flame readings that focus on you and it’s also why we suggest listening to this audiobook.
Twin flame failure can feel like a real possibility but if this is a real twin flame connection then we need to do everything possible to bring this stage to an end. It’s going to happen eventually but the sooner we do something about it – the better.
Remember the Separation Stage
While not technically a required stage the separation is a common part of a twin flame journey. Feeling apart doesn’t instantly mean the journey has failed or they were a false flame. It could just be part of reaching the union stage. We’ve already covered the twin flame separation stage and what you can do about it but I always like sharing this little snippet:
What if Twin Flame Separation is nothing but a preparation for Twin Flame Union?
Because you are not getting the confirmation from your twin in the physical reality that they are still in this together with you, it’s easy to feel that the connection is lost. Because their 3D behavior is bringing up all your unhealed shit, it’s easy to think they don’t love you anymore like they once did. But the truth is that Twin Flame Separation is the ultimate illusion.
It’s designed in this way because if you knew union was a sure thing, you would sit back and not do the work. But what if while you are experiencing the illusion of separation and everything it triggers inside of you, secretly you and your divine counterpart are being prepared for Twin Flame Union? What if it is all designed this way, to bring up the gunk and sludge from the deepest layers of your psyche and that this was the only way you would be able to go this deep, by fully believing the illusion?
It’s always darkest just before the dawn… What if Twin Flame Separation is nothing but the darkness before the dawn of Twin Flame Union?
This advice from this article. I absolutely love (and completely agree) with this way of looking at it. Too often I see people worrying about this stage of their journey. I completely think we need to do whatever we can to move on to the next stage as soon as possible but I also think we need to accept that it’s part of the journey and we need to embrace that.
It’s completely worth it.
Finding your Twin Flame is worse than finding a needle in a haystack and the journey can be absolutely harrowing. So many questions and so few answers. How do you know if you’re doing the right thing? This free audiobook download has pretty much everything we know on Twin Flames and should keep you on the right path.