I’ve been writing about twin flames for several years now and in that time I’ve heard literally thousands of twin flame stories. If I had a nickel for every time someone told me my twin flame doesn’t want me… well, I’d have a whole bunch of nickels.
Hopefully, I’ll be able to help you understand why this happens, what it means and (perhaps most importantly) how you should handle it.
Why Does Your Twin Flame Not Seem to Want You?
If you’ve read into the twin flame journey (and I assume you have at least partly if you’re here) then it can seem strange to feel like your twin flame doesn’t want you. Aren’t they supposed to be infatuated with you?
There are no two twin flames which are ever going to exactly alike but very, very few twins have an easy path towards union. The path generally contains a few twists and that can manifest as feeling like they don’t want you.
- Not every twin flame path starts with love, attraction or even liking each other. The energy from that initial meeting is just that – energy and sometimes this manifests in a way you wouldn’t expect. It’s less common, but sometimes a twin flame journey starts with some negative energy.
- You might have triggered a separation phase. Your twin flame is running because they don’t fully understand the journey that you’re on. Usually, this involves giving you (and themselves) an excuse that helps them frame the connection within a traditional 2D relationship in an effort to understand what’s going on.
What Does This Mean for Your Twin Flame Journey?
It doesn’t mean that you’re dealing with a false twin flame and it’s not any kind of judgment on your journey together. Dealing with a separation phase just means that you both still have work to do before you’re ready for union.
This lies at the heart of every twin flame journey. It’s a path you both must follow and focus on your spiritual growth before being ready to reach the end together. You’ll likely come together and apart during that phase and feeling like they don’t want you is merely a symptom of the current separation phase.
I know this might not seem that useful.
All it really means is that you’re not yet finished with the twin flame journey. I know (first hand) how painful it can be when it feels like your twin flame doesn’t want you but it’s incredibly common. If you are looking for specific guidance with your journey get a twin flame reading on your journey.
What Should You Do About It?
Keep in mind that the runner and chaser dynamic of a twin flame journey can (and often does) switch. Even if you feel like your twin flame doesn’t want you now further down the line that might switch. I know it doesn’t feel like it now but trust me I’ve seen it time and time again.
If you take a few moments to provide the details of your journey we can do a reading for you which can help give some guidance on your journey.