Alright, strap in folks because this is a big one. By far one of the most frequent questions I see when doing a twin flame tarot reading is what happens when twin flames are already married to someone else.
What’s the right thing to do? Is there even a right in this situation?
I’ve seen people take various stances on this topic and to be absolutely clear right from the start this is coming from a position where I respect marriage. I’ve covered false twin flames a lot in the past and while I do believe non-twin flame relationships are destined to turn toxic sooner, rather than later I do understand the moral issue at play here.
It’s why I’m very clear when giving a reading that these can be murky waters and you have to be very careful so that nobody gets hurt. There are steps you need to take to be 100% crystal clear that you’re dealing with a true twin flame before making any decisions that are going to cause harm to anyone.
This all said – I do believe a twin flame connection is a top priority and a key part of our spiritual journey. When married to a false twin flame and you know you’ve met your mirror soul I do think it takes priority.
So what happens? Why does it happen? What should you do?
Dealing With Your Twin Flame Being Married Already
Social pressures are not equipped to deal with mirror souls because most of us are just not there yet. We’re not spiritually ready to understand this type of connection so very few are really going to understand what’s going on. If you try and explain it they’ll probably assume you’re talking about soulmates and most people assume married couples consider the other their soulmate.
We know that a real soulmate is actually something very different. While it’s not uncommon for someone to marry a soulmate it’s not on the same level as a twin flame connection.
Be SURE The Other Person Is Your Twin Flame
This is step one. Always.
I talk about false twin flames all the time and for good reason. Be sure this is the real thing before you consider doing anything else. I always say if in doubt – there is no doubt. If you really can’t tell, then consider getting a twin flame reading.
It’s extremely rare to find your twin flame which means if it has you need to cling on to that connection but it’s also less likely than you might think and you don’t want to hurt anyone for no good reason.
Talk To Your Twin Flame About It
This wouldn’t normally be a comfortable topic to talk about but in a twin flame connection, no topic should be off-limits. If you’re not able to talk about it then it’s not a twin flame connection and that makes the conversation easier.
Don’t drag anyone else into the conversation before you’ve had a chance to talk to your twin flame and covered everything. Your twin flame might have doubts themselves and these need to be talked about. They might not be ready yet – especially if your path hasn’t included a separation phase before. They might not be ready for the same connection as you are.
Talking to the Other Person
I’m not going to write a guide on this. There’s no good way to have this conversation.
Most of us don’t understand higher dimensional relationships. We’re just not at that stage of our own journeys yet so they’re likely not going to understand what you’re talking about.
Be honest, but be kind.
Talk to them when the time is right and don’t involve your twin flame in that conversation. This is between you and the other person for now.
How to Look at Twin Flames Already Being Married
Basically – it’s all part of the journey.
This advice comes from one of our readers who made it to union with his twin flame after a long separation phase:
If you find out that your twin flame is married to someone else, it will crush your world. But, you are missing something here; you are not looking at the bigger picture. You should know that God works in strange ways, and you can’t question his decisions. There is a good chance that you two would never have met if one of you didn’t get married.
Well, if you think that your partner is not your twin flame, and you find the one as well, that could be a tricky situation. You would want to be with your twin flame, but leaving your family isn’t easy at all. After all, you share a bond with your husband as well. Moreover, if you have children with your husband, the situation will be even worse.
A lot of people don’t do anything and decide to spend their life without their twin flame. But, they don’t understand that things are not in their hands when twin flame magic enters their lives. It’s a spiritual bond, and it doesn’t require people’s recognition to existing. They will still be each other’s twin flame, even if they aren’t together. Also, they will get together at some point in their lives.
No matter how hard twin flames try, separation can’t last for long. They are meant to end up together, and this is what happens as well. Your twin flame’s existing marriage can end up in divorce, and you could get an opening there. When it comes to fate, we don’t know what’s in the box. The situation gets even trickier if both of them are married.
If you are happily married and you have a loving partner, life will be beautiful. But, what if you find out that you aren’t married to the one? The situation could get worse if the one that you are supposed to end up with is also married. The situation will be tough for both of you, and it will be painful as well.
However, life could be preparing you two for the time that you are going to spend together. It doesn’t matter where you are or with who you are at the moment when the universe plays its cards; everything could change in a second. A marriage can’t get in your way when you are meeting your spiritual partner.
Remember finding your Twin Flame is worse than finding a needle in a haystack. Whether they’re already married or not. So many questions and so few answers. How do you know if you’re doing the right thing? This free audiobook download has pretty much everything we know on Twin Flames and should keep you on the right path.