Before we get into the twin flame silent treatment (and what to do about it) two main things to remember here is that most (not all) twin flame journeys involve separation and it’s not at all uncommon for the runner twin to cut all communication.
In some ways, it’s even more common these days to notice when your twin flame doesn’t talk to you because we’re used to being so interconnected. The twin flame separation phase is always rough but in a day and age when we’re used to having easy access to each other via phone, it’s all the more noticeable when we lose that. Especially when it’s the one person you want to communicate with the most.
Knowing this doesn’t always make it easier when your twin flame doesn’t talk to you but it’s important to understand where you are in your twin flame journey. It’s also important to remember that this can be entirely normal.
At any stage of a twin flame journey, I usually have the same advice especially to the twin flame chaser (who is usually the one who really knows what’s going on). A lot of this is out of our hands and going through periods of silent treatment or not talking much can be tough. The more you understand about the journey the more you’ll be able to speed up the process and the easier you’ll make it on the both of you.
What to Do When Your Twin Flame Avoids You?
So you’re going through the separation phase. Your twin flame might have blocked you on social media, is avoiding you in real life and just generally giving you the silent treatment.
The first step you need to make certain this is a real twin flame connection. You don’t want to go through this if this is really a false twin flame because you’ll save both of you a lot of time and pain. There’s not always an easy way to do this (sorry) but that’s where twin flame readings and understanding as much of the journey as you can come in.
Most of the people I do a twin flame reading for are dealing with exactly this. There is so much pain, doubt and confusion sometimes it can help to have someone else look at your situation and try and guide you through it. However, you choose to do it, dealing with this stage of the journey involves understanding as much as you can.
It can be tempting to just throw your hands up in the air and scream at the universe but the truth is – it’s on us. The separation phase means that one or both twins are not yet ready for union, and the more we understand about the journey the better equipped we are to actually do something about it.
We’ve done a complete guide on the twin flame chaser journey and what you need to do already. Once you’re certain (as certain as you can be) that you’re in a real twin flame journey you need to try and understand where you are in the journey and watch for signs that it’s time to reach out to the runner twin.
Twin Flame Telepathy and Silent Treatment
It’s also very common for a lot of twin flame journeys to be largely subconscious. So, on some level, your twin might still be communicating with you even if they’ve removed you from social media. It certainly does not mean all hope is gone.
I’ve spoken before about twin flame telepathy. And, like many things, with the journey, people disagree with how it can be used and what it really means. Personally, I haven’t seen any evidence to say any of it is willful and consciously controlled but I do believe there is a subconscious connection to your twin whether you’re aware of it or not.
Even when it seems like your twin flame avoids you there is always a connection between the two of you subconsciously. Neither of you actually has a choice and you might not even be aware of it happening. During the separation phase, the twin flame runner is very rarely conscious of this even though it’s happening constantly.
In my years of experience, I’d say subconscious communication during a twin flame silence period is very common but the runner being aware of it is one of the rarest things I’ve ever heard of. If your twin flame runner is aware of this unconscious connection while otherwise giving you the silent treatment or not talking much consciously then I’d say this is a strong sign of an upcoming reunion.
I think this is a great way of looking at it:
Personally, I think ‘Twin Flame’ is an earthly label we have created to try and explain something of a spiritual nature that we can’t fully understand while in the flesh. I tend to take definitions and rules for ‘twin flames’ and ‘soulmate’ experiences with a pound of salt, and feel people have to just trust their own instincts and perceptions in these situations.
Trying to draw generalities and rules out of these personal experiences is tempting, but just adds to the confusion people already feel.
I think it is far better to advise people to search their own intuition and to meditate on their questions and ask for the answers to arise from their own higher selves and their spirit guides.
This was a great answer from this question on Quora.