The twin flame journey can be overwhelming in many ways, especially during difficult separation phases. Do twin flames think of each other all the time? Are they thinking of you? What does it mean?

It can absolutely feel like you spend too much time thinking about your twin flame.

It doesn’t mean there’s a problem, and while it can cause emotional and spiritual anguish in difficult situations, it’s a good sign that you’re on a true twin flame journey. Twin flames are always thinking about each other on some level. You’re calling out to each other before you physically meet this lifetime.

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When you’re consciously aware of the connection, it becomes a lot more noticeable, and it can sometimes cause some distress. It’s very unlikely you’ll have experienced this kind of connection before, which is why it can seem more akin to obsession or a problem, but it’s perfectly normal. At least as far as anything is normal on this kind of journey.

Why Are They Constantly Thinking About Each Other?

It can serve a purpose. Sometimes, constantly thinking of each other is a sign of twin flame reunion.

A twin flame journey is a soul connection of unconditional love, which may seem odd to some – especially because some twin flames haven’t yet connected in 3D. That means that some of these people involved in spiritual soul ties haven’t even met in person, and yet they can’t disentangle their energy and interest from that of their twin flame.

That’s not something you see or hear about every day.

There is a karmic balance attached to such relationships, whether it’s going on physically or spiritually. The triggering nature of the connection, especially when in separation, involves the twin souls doing hardcore work on themselves and resolving some serious karma before being able to come into true union. While doing all of that work, they will often feel or even be told telepathically that their twin is going through similar, if not the same, issues. There’s just no way to ignore that.

Each twin has to do quite a bit of healing, including that of inner child issues and shadows like codependency. That’s a tough one to work on because the intense nature of the twin flame connection involves high levels of unconditional love, but it can get a bit addictive when you’re basking in that flame. And all of that goes on while your twin is watching, pretty much. Do you think there’s any way to not think about that?

It’s More Than Thinking

It’s not really that they think about each other constantly. It’s more that they’re constantly connected and in each other’s energy. That’s the nature of the twin flame connection by default.

You can’t simply ignore that twin flame energy and connection however much you’d like at some point in time. You can manage your focus, but the moment you allow your mind to wander freely, guess where it’s likely to wander, too?

Because they are always connected, they are part of each other’s lives constantly, whether that’s on a physical, energetic, or emotional level. Which, you have to admit, would be pretty hard to ignore if it were to happen to you. Put, there’s no way not to think about that twin almost constantly. You have to put in quite the effort to ignore the twin.

Do Twin Flames Think About Each Other At The Same Time?

It’s common for twin flames to think about each other simultaneously. They’re also very likely to see each other in dreams or have telepathic connections and exchanges. Because there’s such an intense level of soul connection between them, when one twin thinks of the other, that will trigger the bond and make the other one think of the first, too.

The same goes for dreams.

Because of that telepathic connection, each twin could simultaneously deal with the same emotional or energy-related issue. The information is transferred through the bond, especially when the twin is newer at it and doesn’t know how to filter things, so they don’t make it through to their twin flame.

The high level of interconnected energy circuits in the twin flame bond can also become overwhelming for those with the opposite issue to codependency – hyper-independent or even avoidant attachment behavior. It’s a lot to process, and none of it is easy, especially since it’s quite likely that both partners in the relationship or connection are likely to be dealing with that very same issue – oftentimes at the same time, too. Talk about adding insult to injury, right?

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Can Twin Flames Forget Each Other?

Because of the strong nature of the twin bond, there’s no way to forget about your twin flame. It’s simply not possible.

Sure, you can choose to exit the twin flame journey to union at one point or another, but that doesn’t mean you’ll forget about the twin. You can try to disentangle yourself emotionally and even energetically from the twin, especially if they’re not pulling their weight in the twin flame connection. You can try to silence your unconditional love bond with your twin, or at least ignore it until they get their ducks in a row.

While all of that is possible, and you may succeed in weakening the bond or putting it on mute for quite some time, the cord is unlikely to be severed completely. Twin flame connections don’t just break off because the flames’ journey is frustrating or infuriating. That’s part of the uncomfortable truth: regardless of how each twin flame handles it, they will still be twin flames.

Trying to sever or mute a twin flame connection is a bit like divorcing your spouse and living with them in the same house for the rest of your lives. Sure, it can be done, but it will take constant work and mastery in managing it at various points in time, and whoever else you may want to bring over will feel terribly uncomfortable in that situation once they get the lay of the land.

The twin soul bond is not for the faint of heart, to be sure. It’s a hard connection to manage, whether you’re deciding to accept the journey and work on the connection or not. But then again, being a twin flame was never meant to be about ease or comfort – on the contrary. It’s meant to challenge, trigger, thereby cleanse and help the two gain high vibration and union status through hard work and spiritual discipline.

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After struggling with my own twin flame journey for many years I became (I'll say it) almost obsessed with the twin flame journey and this path of self-discovery and improvement.

Now after sharing the stories of thousands of people going through their own journey I want to share my own thoughts and the patterns I see on twin flames.

I'm wary of speaking in absolutes on a subject like this. There's too much that any of us will really ever *know* (at least in this lifetime) so my opinions are based on my experience and the experience of those I speak to and who share their stories with me.

There are no two journeys that are ever going to be entirely alike but when you see enough of them, you do see definite patterns emerge.

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