It can be tough being the awakened twin flame when the other hasn’t got a clue but we thought it was time to take a look at the reason behind it (and what you can actually do about it).
In some ways it means the burden is on you to do something about it. Remember just because you’re a twin flame doesn’t mean anything is guaranteed to come out of it.
Finding your Twin Flame is worse than finding a needle in a haystack. So many questions and so few answers. How do you know if you’re doing the right thing? This free audiobook download has pretty much everything we know on Twin Flames and should keep you on the right path.
So, first of all, let’s look at the reason WHY you’re the awakened one. This is a great answer:
Because YOU have chosen to be so even before you incarnated here!
In the twin flame couple, one awakens much ahead of the other. This is in the Divine Plan which both the twin flames agree upon, even before they incarnate here on Earth.
Usually both the twin flames are spiritually evolved people. It’s only a matter of time when they awaken to their spiritual evolution!
But trust me, even the unawakened twins do their work in that asleep mode. I was the unawakened twin for 12 years and the work I was doing in that unawakened phase too contributed to my progress later when I started awakening. In fact, twins who stay unawakened for a long time take the RAPID COURSE when they start awakening while the early awakened twins usually stick to the GRADUAL COURSE. Sometimes you may be surprised at how your twin flames who awakened much later after you can offer you guidance on your path.
Being the awakened one first for a long number of years (sometimes even more than a decade!) while the other remains asleep unawakened.
These roles are temporary and most of the times swapped between both (except the first one of course!). There is a purpose behind it.
The main roles they serve though are:
Triggers: They trigger in each other issues that need internal work.
Mirrors: Of course they not only mirror each other’s faults but also progress.
Healers: By healing their own selves, twin flames also affect the healing of their counterparts.
Guides: Twin flames are the ultimate guides to each other to progress on this journey. Their acts – evolved and unevolved alike, serve to steer your course in this journey.
This was a great answer from this question on Quora.
What to Do When YOU’RE the Awakened Twin Flame
So, the big question usually is – can you force them to awaken?
Well, there is one opinion I’d like you to consider:
You see this one a lot in the Twin Flame community. Often the Divine Feminine thinking of herself as the awakened one, who is just waiting for her Divine Masculine to wake up and get with the program.
There is no such thing as an unawakened and an awakened twin. You do not need to know that you are Twin Flames for your journey to be successful. Fact is that neither you or your twin have ANY control over this experience really, your souls are in charge – not the you sitting in a chair reading this article.
As souls you both agreed to this meetup in this lifetime. You both planned, how you were going to meet, when, where and under which circumstances. Not only that, you both agreed to the obstacles and challenges you put in place to help each other shed off everything that is not the real authentic you.
All this Twin drama is not because the Divine Masculine is scared. It’s not because you are too much woman for him to handle. It’s the stuff you both agreed on to heal all the ancient wounds that were keeping you locked tight in 3D, while it is your destiny to create heaven on earth!
This might sound harsh, but it will definitely get you unstuck.
It’s not that your twin is not getting it. You are not getting it, as long as your twin is not ready, it means you are not ready. Dive deeper, what is there left to look at in yourself?
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