I’ve spoken a lot about twin flame energies and attractions, and I’ve covered the twin flame first touch experience, but kissing your twin flame (especially for the first time) is… something else.

Twin flames coming into contact is more than just sexual chemistry or physical attraction. This is two souls coming together, and a kiss expresses their feelings. It’s going to hit both twins like a train and absolutely won’t feel like any kind of kiss you’ve had before.

I’ve spoken to thousands of people now about their journey and experiences on their road to twin flame union, and I don’t think a single one of them didn’t notice something when they first kissed.

However, sadly, the journey isn’t always easy, and that first kiss is rarely going to lead you straight to a union (if it does – I want to hear your story).

The False Twin Flame Warning

While I wish it wasn’t the case – kissing your false twin flame can also feel like the world stands still. If you happen to meet a karmic twin before your twin flame (or if one of you was/is already married), that first kiss is going to absolutely stand out from a traditional 2D relationship.

This is why false twin flames (especially karmic twins) can be dangerous. I hope it isn’t the case – but a first kiss can mislead you, which is why you mustn’t use it as the only sign of a twin flame journey.

Remember, if in doubt, get a twin flame reading on your journey together.

What Happens When You Kiss Your Twin Flame?

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The unhelpful answer really is… it depends.

During that kiss? The world is going to grind to a standstill. A normal first kiss isn’t going to compare to a physical expression or two mirror souls connecting like this.

The world will pause, and you’ll be the only two in it. No two journeys will ever be entirely the same, but the experience of a kiss is almost universal. Unlike your first meeting or first touch, which can sometimes result in the initial energy producing a negative reaction, the first kiss between twin flames is always going to be a positive one.

However, the most common outcome from this will also be soul shock. When one (or both) twins are not ready to handle this kind of spiritual connection, their fight or flight response is going to kick in, and this is most likely going to lead to a separation stage.

When we don’t know how to frame this kind of energy into our current understanding of relationships, the less spiritually attuned twin is going to respond with the only thing that makes sense to them. Run. When I say run I don’t mean literally (although I’ve no doubt that’s happened) I mean it in a spiritual sense. They’ll make up some excuse as to why they can’t be together, and they’ll retreat. So begins the separation stage.

Sometimes, this will happen right away (the energy from the first kiss triggers this fairly often), and sometimes, the energy from the kiss will override this for a while, and the separation stage won’t come until later.

For the very, very lucky few, the first kiss might bring you straight to a union, but you’re very blessed if this is the case, and you absolutely shouldn’t judge your relationship or your twin if they react this way.

What Does a Kiss With Your Twin Flame Feel Like?

This is one of those questions which is nearly impossible to answer because you’re just going to know it. I know that isn’t a satisfying answer, but it’s kind of like trying to explain a color to someone. You just… know it.

I’ve described a first touch with a twin flame as simultaneously feeling safe within your comfort zone while at the same time being pushed outside of it. Twin flames push each other to improve while providing support like no other.

Kissing your twin flame is an extension of that feeling but… with a lot more energy.

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What Happens When You Hug Your Twin Flame?

Hugging your twin flame is similar to any kind of physical contact. You’re going to know it. When you hug your twin flame, it’s going to feel safer than being in Fort Knox. Despite physical size or stature, nobody is going to make you feel as safe or comforted as your twin flame will. Whether it’s your first or 1000th hug – that feeling never goes away.

If you’ve shared a hug with someone and not felt something out of the ordinary, it’s likely this is not a twin flame connection. Sometimes, initial physical contact, like brushing each other, can get noticed, but a hug should absolutely stand out.

When Do Twin Flames Come Together Sexually?

I get this question fairly often, but sadly, it’s not one with a hard-set answer. Some twins can come together sexually early on or even on their first meeting. Others might have to undergo extended separation phases before reaching this physical stage. Like many things on this journey (including kissing your twin flame for the first time), there are no hard-set rules or timeframes.

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After struggling with my own twin flame journey for many years I became (I'll say it) almost obsessed with the twin flame journey and this path of self-discovery and improvement.

Now after sharing the stories of thousands of people going through their own journey I want to share my own thoughts and the patterns I see on twin flames.

I'm wary of speaking in absolutes on a subject like this. There's too much that any of us will really ever *know* (at least in this lifetime) so my opinions are based on my experience and the experience of those I speak to and who share their stories with me.

There are no two journeys that are ever going to be entirely alike but when you see enough of them, you do see definite patterns emerge.

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  • I did feel the soul shock you are talking about when we kissed. I do feel so safe when I a with him. My whole being needs and wants him.

  • When my TF and I first kissed it was like I was kissing myself—weird to say, but we had the same kissing style and it felt so natural. Then it was like there was an electric shock that caused me to pull away and inhale sharply. I’ve never experienced anything like it… very powerful.

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